This is one of the biggest mysteries of the world for most men. The most unattractive, un-influential men can sometimes attract beautiful women that every man dreams of being with. You see them at the beach, at parent teacher conferences, and at local restaurants. They aren’t driving fancy cars. They aren’t loaded with cash and on the verge of dying. They are just average looking men (some are downright ugly) walking around with the most attractive eye candy you have ever seen.

How do these men do it? What do you have to do to get into that club?

The secret behind this phenomenon is that most women are not looking for arm candy. That may be something that ranks at the top of the list when a man is looking at a woman, but women have different criteria when selecting a mate. Men who are not drop-dead gorgeous often attract beautiful women because they have other things that the women find extremely attractive.

It’s a Personal Thing

Every woman has something special that finds wildly sexy in a man. For some young girls who haven’t matured or experienced life to the fullest yet, this may be sexy six pack abs or long shaggy hair, but for most women it is something that cannot be seen. What you need to understand is that it is different for every woman.

For instance, one woman may have a need to feel secure and protected so she will be subconsciously drawn to men who display attributes of strength. This could be a physical stature that is large and strong, but that has to be backed up with a strong personality that shows he is not afraid to defend himself and his woman. The ugliest man in the room could display this type of dominant, strong personality and attract beautiful women who want to feel protected.

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Take another woman who has a strong desire to connect with a man on an intellectual level. She wants to feel valued and have interesting conversations with a man who recognizes and validates her sharp mind. She will be drawn to men who are engaging and smart and who do not trivialize her or assume she can’t discuss big issues. Obviously, you don’t have to be a superstar with washboard abs to get her attention.

Women may be attracted in the conscious mind to beautiful men, but what really controls her choices in a mate are those deeper unconscious desires and needs which often have nothing to do with appearances.

Finding Your Influential Strengths

This is true of all women, even the most beautiful ones. Most men just don’t realize this and are too shy and awkward to show their true personalities when first meeting a woman. If you can’t show your true self you can’t attract those deep inner needs and she doesn’t go wild for you.

Most average or unattractive men who attract beautiful women are just confident enough to display their true personality when they interact with women. They don’t hide who they are and therefore women are drawn to those attributes that meet their deep-seated needs.

If you want to join those average men who attract beautiful women like it’s nothing, learn to free your personality and show women what you are really all about. Now that you know it’s not all about appearances you should have more confidence when approaching women, right?